Quote (abanks47)
this is wrong and offensive. seems like every time you try to bring up a point you have to bring race into it and its always about black people. the fact you do that is sad because i do not know 2 black people who are exactly the same and that goes for every race.
i sort of agree with you because of the sterotypes ilikebacon mentioned and the way he presented them came off as sort of pseudo-racist lol, however, would you not agree that there are physical and cultural traits that make us diverse as people that we can and should label people with? i am talking about traits that are neither positive nor negative, but neutral. for an example of physical traits, say i'm at a store and i ask someone that works at this store about something and he doesn't have the expertise on that specific thing. what he then does is tells me to go speak to another individual about the matter that i am asking about because he knows better. in order to tell me who to speak to he tells me "he's the black guy standing right there". in this instance he used a label for quick reference so i would know immediately who he is talking about. i do not find this to be a bad thing at all. for an example of a label based on culture, i am currently talking to a Mexican girl who comes from a traditional Mexican/Catholic family (there go the labels already lol). because i have zero game (literally, zero. it's pathetic lol) i ask my friends who are more experienced and skilled at talking to girls for advice. almost every person i talk to immediately asks what race she is before giving me advice and they give me advice specific to the culture of the girl i am talking to. with this girl, because of her cultural background, she is the type that will probably live at home with her entire family until she gets married, she is very close to her family, she is quite religious and goes to church every Sunday, she had a strict upbringing and even though she's 18, her family still has a lot of control over her when it comes to relationships, etc. these traits and more are all common with women that fit her description and, while not all of these apply in every case, you will usually find that at least several of these traits can be found in almost every case. so when people give me advice on dating Mexican women, they usual build their advice around these characteristics. is this labeling? to the absolute fullest extent. could some or even all of these be correct on an individual basis? absolutely. but are they useful regardless? most definitely. are they bad? absolutely not. labels are necessary. a society without labels is one in which there is no communication for language is simply a code built from labels.
Quote (abanks47)
are you fucking serious? of course not. i would never ever base my opinion of someone based on the pigment of there skin and if you do i truly feel sorry for you
maybe not the pigment of their skin, and maybe not your opinion of that person, but are there no assumptions made based on someone's culture? for example, i am Hungarian. with this knowledge, do you not assume that myself or someone in my family knows the language, makes Hungarian food, etc.? those labels are neutral. they are not good or bad. if you were to ask me if i know how to speak Hungarian or if i ever eat Goulash i wouldn't be offended in any way. that is, however, not so much of a stereotype, so i would assume you would probably be upset if i said "you're black? oh, do you know how to make grits? collard greens? do you like fried chicken? pigs feet? watermelon?" lol. stereotypes are a completely different ballgame. not all labels are stereotypes. as a matter of fact, 99.9999999999% of labels are NOT stereotypes.
Quote (abanks47)
how does your preference of a race determine what music you listen too? this is just you labeling and stereotyping again associating blacks with hip hop which is wrong. all races spit on the mic
i think he was just making that statement to say "bro, i listen to hip hop. how could i be racist when hip hop is diverse?" still doesn't necessarily make him not racist though, but i think it's obvious bacon isn't racist. i think a label can be used in this case actually. bacon is a white kid from the midwest, aka the bible belt. he probably has a lot of conservative friends, relatives, etc., that are from a traditionally white upbringing, and unfortunately, in recent history, that upbringing brought with it racism. so because of his upbringing, i would assume some of the language he uses can tend to be unintentionally racist. in California, both you and i have been around political correctness so long that it has become second nature. in the south, the midwest, and other more rural parts of the country, that political correctness has not been taught. so i don't think it's his fault that he comes off that way. i think it is, in part, due to his upbringing and he can't be blamed for that aspect of it, though ultimately he does bear responsibility for his words.
so yes, bacon, you should watch your words a bit more, but i understand where it comes from. doesn't mean you get a pass though lol.
Quote (abanks47)
what?! you guys are saying you label people, that all people do it. thats what people did as far as i can remember. you are not exercising new ideas you are simply re-stating the norm from what i can see but i do apologize if i saw that wrong and still stand that i never base my judgement on people based on there race.
if thats what you guys do that is fuckin ancient
Quote (Adam)
i never said i label people i simple said that there is always going to be some form of prejudgment on anything we experience including meeting new people.
i agree with this wholeheartedly.