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What a pussy, have some self-respect. It seems desperate to call up and flirt with an 18 yr old girl who goes to school and plays volleyball with ur little sister. especially when your 23....... especially when ur getting depressed because she ended up turning u down after.
You know, maybe you have no problem talking to girls, but there are some people out there, like myself, who have gone through different experiences in life than you have and, because of their experiences, it is far more difficult. Now, I don't think I know of anyone worse than me with being scared to talk to girls, but it has also been a long process of shit that has happened to me throughout my life that has changed my outlook on things and made it steadily harder for me to do this shit. And firstly, she doesn't go to school with my sister, she just plays volleyball with her. My sister is really good. She's the youngest girl on the team. She's the only girl who isn't at least almost 18. Either way, as long as she's over 18, age doesn't really matter when it comes to attraction. Me and this girl are attracted to each other quite a bit, which has showed these past 2 or 3 months. And that comment from me earlier was actually just me assuming the worst as usual when it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought. I will explain momentarily.
Quote (J-Breakz)
Just mind ur own shit. If she likes u, she'll start trying to hang out with u and tryn to get ur attention. If she never does end up doing that then who gives a fuck. its just pussy
Nah man, I can't drag myself down to look at it that way. I don't like the whole "its just pussy" attitude at all. When I like a girl, I want to be with her and only her for a long time. That's just the kind of guy I am. I've never cheated on a girl, though I will say I have had one night stands, but I really don't like them at all.
As for her trying to get my attention and trying to hang out, she already has been, BIG TIME. And I'm so damn shy that I've basically shot her down multiple times. But I recently actually bucked up and talked to her and I think she seems enthusiastic about meeting up so hopefully that happens.
As for tonight, while I was sleeping my mom came in my room and was snooping around for some dumb reason and idk what she was doing but it seemed like she was trying to look through my phone and I guess she accidentally pushed the talk button and called her! Mind you, it was 2:30 in the morning when she called, and I woke up to my phone ringing and my mom standing over me with my phone in her hand. She ignored the call and this girl called back so I answered it half asleep and apologized and told her I accidentally pushed the talk button. She giggled and seemed like she thought me accidentally calling her was really cute, she told me not to worry about it because she wasn't asleep, and then I hung up. What's interesting, though, is that after that conversation, I don't think I'm going to be nervous to talk to her any longer for some reason. We'll see what happens. Hopefully it all works out.
